100 Sexy Facts

Learn 100 titillating facts about sexidesign.com’s author, me, Melody Nieves. All facts are not necessarily regarding sex. Some are just kinky facts about my life, art, beliefs, and interests–stuff I normally wouldn’t tell anyone.

These facts are here to just loosen you up…

…they aren’t necessarily easy to admit publicly but I feel that people are too uptight regarding the topic of sex. I originally saw a similar, yet steamier post on Svetlana Ivanova’s sex secrets blog, let’s just say she has much bigger balls than me to declare some of her confessions!

100 Sexy Facts

Intro
1.  I think Sex is awesome, in fact, we could probably solve a lot of anger in this world if everyone just got laid.
2.  Usually, my personal sex life is off limits–even to friends, I think it sometimes takes away from the personal connection you have with your partner.

3.  I am straight.

4.  But it took me so long to date that people thought I was a lesbian.
5.  I have never had a bicurious experience, and I do not want one–men are wonderful!
6.  But I have no problem talking about another woman’s body (errogenous zones, etc). Especially if I’m in envy of her perky breasts or hourglass figure haha..
7.  I guess because I’m an artist it’s easy for me to talk about the human form (male or female). I am simply fascinated by it..
8.  I have had very few partners, you can barely count them on one hand.
9.  I always knew I would have sex before marriage, but never wanted to jump from partner to partner.
10.  Luckily, I have never been sexually abused.

Now to the good stuff….

11.  I think my extreme shyness has developed hyper sensitivity to touch.

12.  In fact, one particular touch can make my knees buckle when standing (it’s a secret!)
13.  As a result to (11), I cherish cuddling and random displays of affection.
14.  I prefer to sleep in the nude…
15.  …But the weather usually determines whether I do.
16.  I’ve only owned one vibrator,
17.  which is a pocket rocket.
18.  I’ve never tried one, but I feel like a dildo just can’t compare to the real thing.
19.  Which leads me to–vaginal and clitoral orgasms are two way different experiences…
20.  …Both are awesome!
21.  But I think clitoral orgasms are like male orgasms–I need a retraction period after. haha..
22.  I don’t understand why women don’t like giving oral, but like intercourse.
23.  If you find a penis disgusting, why put it inside you?
24.  Acting like sex or body parts are disgusting is a major turn off.
25.  I’m not easily “wooed…”
26.  …cause I’m very analytical.

27.  My favorite parts of my body are my lips

28.  –I love kissing…
29.  …but not too much tongue.
30.  And the second favorite part is my hands…
31.  …they’re slender and feminine.
32.  But I rarely paint them–I only like clear nail polish.
33.  Going without sex is not a big deal, though it is missed.
34.  As Svetlana points out, “any woman can get laid…
35.  …just not necessarily laid well.”

“Artsy” Sexy Facts…

36.  I used to draw people having sex when I was younger.

37.  And I often made my barbies have sex.
38.  For years I dreamed of being able to experience 1 cuddle position because of putting my barbies in this position.
39.  It’s when a woman has her head on a guy’s chest with his arms around her.
40.  I’m not sure at what age I began drawing nudes, but I probably started around my pre-teens.
41.  I took my first drawing class with a nude model in college…
42.  …that was one hell of an awkward experience!
43.  And for some reason I always remember the girl’s nipples,
44.  not the areola, but her actual nipples were pretty big.. haha
45.  Drawing a nude guy was uh–not a turn on..lol
46.  He was older (not a problem) but had a hunch back lol..

47.  Trying to keep a straight face while drawing the delicate details of someone’s errogenous zone is the hardest thing in the world! haha..

48.  Men, though beautiful creatures, are hard to draw for me–
49.  their features are strong and sharp, so I have to take extra care in order for a piece to come out right…

Now back to the good stuff…
50.  I apparently have the perfect voice to be a phone sex operator.
51.  I use it to my advantage when I want to talk dirty
52.  I’ll try anything once, as long as there is care and consideration.
53.  Being open to experimentation is a major to great sex.
54.  Not because of what you’re doing, but because you’re comfortable in your skin and in the connection.
55.  I talk a lot of shit, but I tend to be submissive, in a feminine–not hopeless way lol..
56.  The man taking charge is a major turn on.
57.  I’m a moaner, but I get quieter when it gets reallllly good
58.  I guess you could say that’s when my breath is taken away

59.  98% of the time, I am multi-orgasmic..

60.  I usually forget how many orgasms I’ve had during sex.
61.  Ever since I knew about them, I’ve been doing kegel exercises regularly!
62.  Kegel exercises make everything more intense (just ask your partner)!
63.  I research about sex advice/techniques regularly,
64.  but having a site about sex gives me the excuse to look up naughty things
65.  I’m self conscious, like everyone, but I don’t let it keep me from enjoying sex.
66.  Oh, and I don’t feel the need to say “love making” whenever I talk about sex.
67.  I love dressing sexy for my partner, but don’t always feel the need to.
68.  I’ve always had a list of things I’ve wanted which embody feminism–like a silver compact mirror, or a perfume atomizer..
69.  For some reason I have a fetish with shoes, I don’t own many, but I love the sound of them–they make me feel womanly.
70.  When no one is looking I like to walk around wearing only shoes.

71.  I have a pair of stripper heels.
72.  They go with my stripper pole.

73.  I can talk about sex to anyone, I just prefer to leave the minute details of my current sex life out.
74.  No part of a man’s body is off limits to me unless he says so.
75.  I think many men miss out on the wonders of fully reciprocated foreplay.
76.  My biggest turn on is probably turning my partner on,
77.  And exploring for new “hot spots”
78.  The expression on a guy’s face when a woman takes charge is priceless!
79.  If I can’t mutually please my partner–then whats the point?
80.  I prefer porn with an element of fantasy.

81.  A fantasy I’ve had for years is to be with a hot volleyball coach (I’m a former varsity player) haha..

82.  When I am able, I want to buy every piece from Liberator’s sex furniture line lol..
83.  I’ve had sexual dreams…
84.  And some women are capable of thinking about sex as much as men–atleast I am lol..
85.  Just because I think of it often, doesn’t mean I go out and get it.
86.  Sex with a complete stranger is odd for me to understand.
87.  I prefer to be in a relationship,
88.  because being in a relationship gives you time to understand what your partner likes, ultimately optimizing the experience.

89.  I wish I could dress up like a pinup model everyday,

90.  and wear my hair in pin curls.
91.  I usually only listen to slow, sexy jazz/soul music.
92.  Sexy music and sex go so well together
93.  In fact, I’m listening to Ella Fitzgerald while writing this..
94.  Understanding body language gives me sexy power lol..
95.  My favorite part of a man is his back….
96.  It’s actually hard to choose a favorite part,
97.  I also love: hands, smile, legs, arms, chest, and facial bone structure lol..
98.  Having a sense of humor is incredibly sexy.

99.  I wish I could bottle orgasms and prescribe them lol..

100. Lastly, I love to listen, so feel free to share your own sexy facts!